Help dating a married man
He would return with flowers, expensive gifts, money and powerful love-making sessions. How in the world am I supposed to move on after this?He would wine and dine me and make me forget about any questions I had about our relationship. I wanted to get married but he kept stalling and would make up some excuse and give some reason why he couldn't marry me yet. He said he was in the process of a divorce and he wanted me to wait for him. Then one day I received a knock at my door and it was "HER", his "WIFE"…staring me in my face. Sincerely, Hurt By My Married Lover Dear Hurt, If I had a dollar for every letter I received like this one, I'd be financially independent.However, filling the void may backfire on him, as the relationship may escalate from occasional lunches during work hours or early dinners disguised as “working late”, to the more intimate texting and instant messages all night long.This is hook line and sinker for the woman, as she automatically thinks, “oh, he wants to talk to me so badly that he’s risking getting caught!He would say, "I love you, please wait for me," "I will marry you because you're the woman I've waited for all of my life." I wanted to believe him but I knew there was something that I couldn't put my finger on. She introduced herself and wanted to know what I was doing with her husband. Much research has been done on infidelity to give explanation for the reasons why people cheat and lie to the other woman or other man about the state of their marriage.
I was a secure, confident woman and was not willing to compromise my life for a relationship and everything that came with it. He had his responsibilities with his wife and family. For those forty hours a week that his wife was working, he was mine.
The love affair with the married man starts with a man who married for the wrong reasons and thus never truly felt fulfilled in his commitment to the wife.
They probably have kids together and that is the only bond they share.
a.k.a He'll NEVER stay that into you There are no positive reasons for dating a married man.
Even the good reasons don't stand the test of time and turn out to be bad ideas in good ideas' clothing.