Dating job interview
The stars will align, and your dreams will come true. But until then, we’re all stuck going through the motions, thinking about how we need to find a real grown-up job and settle down with someone who will make mom and dad happy during the holidays.
For most 20- and 30-somethings, going on dates and searching for jobs are simultaneous events — the likes of which were never taught in college. If you’re not treating your job interview like a first date, then you’re doing it wrong.
John Gray, author of, notes that in the workplace, women have learned to be independent, self-reliant and focused on solving problems and managing people.
article, "Quick Encounters of the Hiring Kind" by Wallace Immen, speed interviews could include a circuit of as many as 14 mini-interviews of 15 minutes a piece in a row.
A typical speed interview meeting could include up to 10–15 job seekers, each of whom move along to a new interviewer at the commencement of a bell.
After all, that what men like about us in the first place!
Wear a skirt, be less competitive (save that for the office and sports), smile, talk about your interests.