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So what is this Yankee girl going to tell you about dating a Jamaican.And in my short life, there are few things I’ve picked up when it comes to relationship dynamics.After scanning the comments on A New Mode, I have noticed a very common topic in almost every discussion. I am a staunch believer in holding out as long as possible. It would show some serious insecurities if you fought over this point.Somehow we always manage to fit Facebook into all relationship/hookup/guy-meets-girl talks. The image we portray to the world is now through statuses and pictures. I met you at a fundraiser and now would like to get to know you so we exchange names and numbers and now I go home and friend you. All of the sudden the business-casual, classy beauty at the affair turns into a funneling, ice-luging, pole dancing, make out queen of Indiana University. I just mean the ones that do not portray the real you. Facebook has pictures and statuses of you since when you were 18 years old. As twisted as it may seem, FB is a deep look into who you really are. QUIZ: Are You Accidentally Sabotaging Your Relationship? Stand your ground if you are not comfortable with publicizing it and he is.Go on your facebook and take a hard look at every picture and ask yourself, “Is sexy Halloween cow girl riding the bull at The Roxy the image I’m going for? Posts When you find yourself in a consistent relationship with someone it is okay to post pictures of the two of you in your everyday lives enjoying each others company. She has hacked into the mainframe and paid off Zuckerberg and she’s in there.” If it is by all means keep it up there…just expect a cowboy in return. Just know that all your single friends will begin to hate you on that day. Posts of yourself with your “guy” are cool, but PDA is not. She, nor any of us, need to see 12 selfies in a row of you making out in front of Niagara Falls. While we’re on this huge topic, there is also no need to post every single one of his acts of kindness towards you.
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